Audhdistically Me

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The diagnosis explains a lot. It doesn't tell you what to do next.

Everything here is for late-diagnosed autistic and ADHD adults. Some of it is one to one with me, some is in a group and some you use in your own time. Open the door that fits and the details are inside.

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Three doors. Which one sounds like you?

One to one with me

By message on Telegram or live on Zoom. From £77.

By message on Telegram

Coaching by voice note and message for AuDHD brains that think better without a camera. No live performance. No masking required.

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Why Telegram, and how it works

Sometimes the last thing you need is another Zoom call. You don't want to perform. You don't want to find the right words in real time while masking your face into something appropriate. You don't want to remember everything that was said the moment it's said. You just want someone in your corner, who gets it and who'll think alongside you without needing you to be on.

You can be on a train. You can be on a school run. You can be in your pyjamas with the dog on your lap. You can listen back to a voice note when your brain finally catches up to what was said. I can meet you from wherever I am too, which means I can be more present, not less.

A few things to know. Telegram is an app like WhatsApp. In The Hour we go back and forth for the full sixty minutes. Across The Day there are natural pauses between exchanges, sometimes 20 minutes, sometimes longer. That's the format, and for a lot of AuDHD brains those pauses are the whole point.

Outside the agreed window, I'm not on Telegram. That's deliberate. It's what makes this format sustainable for me to deliver and trustworthy for you to receive.

You'll get my Telegram username on booking. No phone numbers exchanged. If you want to keep working together after a session, you're welcome to book another at the same price.

Cancellation: I ask for 24 hours' notice if you need to cancel or reschedule. Within 24 hours of your booked window, sessions aren't refundable.

The Hour

£77

Something is happening this week and I cannot think straight about it.

60 minutes on Telegram. No camera. Bookable with as little as two hours' notice on my coaching days.

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One hour. One Telegram window. One thing that needs untangling.

This is for the days when something specific has knotted itself up in your head and you need help working it loose. A decision you keep going round in circles on. A conversation you can't stop replaying. A feeling you can't quite name.

You bring the tangle. I bring lived experience, grounded reflection and the kind of support that doesn't try to fix you because you're not broken.

And here's the bit that makes The Hour different: on my coaching days you can book with as little as 2 hours' notice. The booking calendar shows exactly what's free. For the wobbles that won't wait until next week.

You'll get
  • A 60-minute Telegram window with me using voice notes, messages or both
  • Back and forth with me for the full hour, with my full attention
  • A prompt before your window so you arrive ready

Best for: one decision, one knot, one moment that needs working through today.

Book The Hour

The Day

£247

I can't do this day on my own.

Six hours of Telegram access to me, 10am to 4pm, on a date we agree.

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Me, in your pocket on Telegram, from 10am to 4pm on a date we agree.

This is for the days you can't do alone. The day of the hard conversation. The day of the meeting you've been dreading for a week. The day of the appointment that's going to ask a lot of you. The day you're telling someone something big like a diagnosis, a decision, a no.

For six hours, I'm with you on Telegram. You message and voice note me before, during and after the thing happens. I respond as I'm able to across the day. Not instant, but with you in real time, in the actual moment, while it's actually happening.

It's the difference between booking a coaching call beforehand that you'll have half-forgotten by the time the thing happens and having someone in your corner while it's unfolding.

You'll get
  • Six hours (10am to 4pm) of Telegram access with me on a date we agree together
  • Voice notes, messages or both, whatever your brain wants that day
  • A prompt before your day so you arrive ready
Best for
  • A difficult conversation you can't keep avoiding
  • A meeting, review or interview you're dreading
  • Telling someone something big: a diagnosis, a decision, a no
  • An appointment that's going to be a lot
  • A deadline day where you have to make and act on something hard
  • A transition day: a job ending, a child starting school, a chapter closing
Book The Day

Live on Zoom

For when you'd rather talk it through face to face, once or over a few weeks.

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The Lightbulb Session

£111

I need to say this out loud once, to somebody who gets it.

One 60 minute Zoom call. No ongoing commitment.

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This is for when you don't need ongoing coaching, you just need a fresh brain, a safe place to think out loud and clarity on one specific situation.

Perfect for
  • Decision-making
  • Untangling a single problem
  • Reframing something that's looping
  • Sense-checking your thinking with someone who gets AuDHD brains

No ongoing commitment. One call. Clear outcome.

Book your Lightbulb Session

Clarity and Momentum

£288

This is not one conversation, and it is not my whole life either.

Three 60 minute Zoom sessions, used within six weeks.

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This is ideal if you know you need more than one conversation, but you're not looking for intensive support.

Best suited for
  • Getting clear on what's actually going on beneath the overwhelm
  • Working through a short-term challenge
  • Building confidence, boundaries or self-trust around a specific theme
  • Creating momentum without over-committing

All three sessions are booked and used within a six-week period.

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The 1:1 Intensive

£600

Everything is moving at once and I cannot hold it on my own.

Four 60 minute sessions across one month, plus weekday Telegram access. Very limited spaces.

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This is my most supportive and immersive 1:1 offer.

You'll get
  • 4 x 60-minute coaching sessions (weekly is recommended, but can be flexible)
  • Weekday voice-note access via Telegram during agreed hours
  • Ongoing support focused on one core issue or transition
Designed for
  • Periods of change or instability
  • Relationship challenges
  • Intense anxiety, rumination or emotional overwhelm
  • Big identity, work or life shifts as an AuDHD adult
  • Having consistent support while you process, reframe and stabilise

Containers run month by month and must be used within the four weeks. Spaces open at the start of each month and cannot be started mid-month, so the next start is always the first of the month.

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"I left the session feeling empowered and with much clearer ideas about how I achieve my personal goals. I'd absolutely recommend Jenny to anyone, but in particular Neurodivergent folks."

F.T., one-to-one coaching client

In a group with me

Webinars, the membership and my group programme.

Webinars

£27 a place

I want one topic without a big commitment.

One topic, one evening, live with me. Earlier ones in the series are available on replay.

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Reclaim Your SELF Hub

Waitlist

Lonely, surrounded by people who do not get it.

My membership: an ongoing space with other late-diagnosed AuDHD adults. Doors open a few times a year and they're closed right now. The waitlist hears first.

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Find Your Fucking Self

Waitlist

Ready for the deep work on who I am.

My group programme for late-diagnosed AuDHD adults: ten weeks live plus two consolidation weeks. It runs once a year. £1,050, payment plans available. Closed for now, and the waitlist hears first.

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In your own time

An app for burnout days, and the book I couldn't find when I was diagnosed.

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Burnout Buddy

Waitlist

In burnout, barely able to do anything.

An app that keeps you company while you move through burnout. It asks almost nothing of you. No streaks, no notification guilt, no blank box, nothing to fail at. The waitlist gets the details before anyone else.

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Autism, ADHD and Me

Newly diagnosed, trying to understand.

Your No Bullshit Guide to Life After Late Diagnosis. An Amazon bestseller, and the guide I couldn't find when I was newly diagnosed.

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Something else?

Book me to speak

Events, podcasts and panels. Late diagnosis, unmasking, burnout, parenting and confidence. My press coverage, bio and headshots are on my press and media page.

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Got a story or expertise to share about neurodivergent life? I'm always looking for guests for Autism, ADHD and Us Three.

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